I’ve been hanging out with this guy (I think 5 times now) and first few dates he didn’t even try touching me. 3rd time we hung out at his place, watched movies + cuddled, and I slept over (no kissing). 4th time we hooked up and I went home right after. 5th time a couple nights ago, we watched movies a little, cuddled (a lot), talked and laughed, and I slept over. He was definitely a lot more physically affectionate this time around. I didn’t sleep with him but I’m scared that’s all he wants from me. I’m not really used to someone being this physically affectionate e.g. when I cuddle, he brings me super duper close until we’re really tight (tbh it can be suffocating lol), he’s always kissing me, he’ll wake up in the middle of the night to kiss my arm or my forehead or my cheek or my neck, he woke up and said “I wanted to reunite” and brought me really close to him, and I’m just wondering if men can be physically affectionate with no feelings (and only want something purely physical) because I can’t.

(to be clear, I really like the physical affection, I’m just not sure what he wants out of it because I don’t want just sex)