How do you square this with the fact that everyone says relationships can fall into a lull? I was reading the other thread that said you have to tell yoru partner if you don’t love them anymore. I mean, after 5 months of dating, do you get in bed iwth them and say “I find you less attractive than I used to, and I stare at other girls more often now, but it’s possible I still love you, I’m just not sure if this is a lull or not. We’ll see how I feel tomorrow. Goodnight!”