So, I’m in the dating process looking for the right person to have a ltr with.

This guy I matched with on the app I’m on had the same intentions listed in his profile. I messaged him first, because why not? I was curious to see what he was about. He automatically gave me his number and told me to text him so we can chat and get to know each other.

We texted, met up (initiated by me), chatted. Everything was great. He told me he was looking for something serious, ready to settle down. But he also mentioned sexual compatability was really important to him. I don’t engage sexually if I don’t know the person and especially if I don’t have feelings for them.

I told him this and said we should go our seperate ways and he agreed. But then after thinking about it, I wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt and see what would happen if I took him at his word.

I said I was willing to begin with non-pv interactions. Told him as long as he shows he’s interested in getting to know me, we can work up from there. He said he was happy with that and said I showed I cared.

I went to his place (he initiated) on Thursday. We fooled around for a bit. After, he opened up quite a bit. He was so excited telling me about his hobbies. He mentioned future plans with me, getting to know me naturally. Mentioned plans for kids. He asked if we could hang out again on Saturday. I said yes.

I had to leave and he asked me to text him when I got home. I did and he texted back saying he was glad.

I texted him Friday telling him to lmk the time for Saturday. Didn’t hear from him all day but he was constantly online on the app. A friend messaged me asking to hang Saturday and I still didn’t know what was up. I messaged him once more at night saying if we weren’t going to meet then I had other plans to make.

He messaged back saying sorry, he was busy all day and he will be busy working Saturday. He would probably be available for 2hrs but isn’t sure when. Said if I needed to make those other plans then to go ahead and do so.

I said I was going to go ahead with the other plans and said good luck with his work.

Saturday I see he is constantly checking out the dating app. And he hasn’t messaged me once to reschedule.

I’m thinking I should just let everything go and move on. If he has time to check the app constantly, he has time to let me know if his plans change. Also, why in the world would you ask me to hang out and then say you’re busy?? He is coming off as not interested.

It’s also possible that I’m thinking way too much into this and I need to calm down and give him time.