I’ve been making a lot of posts about how I want to date, but I don’t want to “date for marriage” or settle down anytime soon. Which is all very true. However, if, and this is a huge, and I mean VERY HUGE if, I meet the perfect person who I have a strong connection with, I probably wouldn’t mind being in an LTR with them. Marriage is still a bit iffy, but I would not be totally closed to that either. And I’m still pretty sure that I don’t want kids (but this could change 10-15 years from now).

Anyway, the perfect woman for me would be someone who’s obviously very physically attractive. I mean she doesn’t need to be a supermodel, but I do need to find her physically attractive. Also I need to have a strong personal connection with her as well. Like we have common interests, and I can communicate with her, and I enjoy being around her. She needs to be someone who’s chill, with good taste in things. She’s still open to doing fun things, but she’s not fooling around with anyone else. I mean, I don’t know what else to say, but you get the picture. In order for me to be in a LTR or marry anyone, they have to be a PERFECT match for me.

Now, I know we live in the real world. I know finding the perfect match is like finding a needle in a haystack. Because of this, I’m very against the idea of “dating for marriage”. Like right now I just want to gain dating (and sexual) experience, and not worry too much whether the women I get with are the “perfect match”. I mean, they still need to be attractive to me. But even if they aren’t marriage or LTR material, I’ll be open to dating (or having sex) with them. Now, in the highly unlikely chance I meet my dream girl, then I’d certainly be open to at least a committed LTR. But yeah like I said earlier that is a big “if”.