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READ MORE »I am out of the friendzone after over a year
So we are going out Saturday night. It took me over a year to get to her and she is my dream girl. I am incredibly happy now.
I think the main reason is that I worked on myself and raised my own value. I was suffering from depression and one way to make myself better was to focus on wellness. I lift weights and eat healthy and live an overall healthy lifestyle now and I post stuff about this in my social media. I also put a lot of effort on learning about how your mind works.
I told her about my depression and how I was feeling better now and I want to started a family now and I have so much to offer. I have a great job, I am fit and I don’t drink or anything like that and I want to have kids.
I did cut back on texting and we talked only a few times per month and she did some of the initiating. I always told her that I miss her and I want to see her. I asked her out again this week and she said she wants to see me and she has been texting me like crazy.
First I thought I was acting like a needy beta male but I now I think I am standing out from the crowd. If you are a female what would you think if a handsome and fit guy with a career would always be nice to you and tell you how he thinks you are special and how he likes you and how he wants to find someone to start a family with? Wouldn’t you find that attractive after seeing what kind of single men there are out there?
I don’t mean to brag but I have worked hard on my self worth and finding happiness and recreating myself and it seems like I have succeeded. I feel like I have gotten rid of my limiting self beliefs and have started to use my potential. I am not afraid to say that I am a great guy and I have a lot to offer and I deserve happiness.
I don’t really care if she puts me back into the friendzone after the date or something like that because I will find someone else then who sees my value. But I don’t think this will happen. She has been showing very high interest in her texting lately and I am such a great guy that she doesn’t want to fuck this up 🙂
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