I don’t know how I got this lucky, or maybe it’s bad luck and it’s gonna be a mess of drama. I don’t get dates very often but managed to get 2 first dates this weekend, different nights. The first says she’s mainly looking for friends but maybe more, and the second is very interested in dating. I’m fine with friends but mainly looking for a relationship, and I told both of them this.

I try to be very open and honest, and I never thought I could date 2 people at once, so I’m just not sure how to handle this. I just didn’t want to tell either to wait, because they both seem like someone I would like. I’ve only been texting them so far, for the last week, but really clicked right away with them both.

I think I’ll probably just tell the first one that we should just be friends for now, depending on how it goes anyway. Then the second I am a little more interested in so far, so maybe try to be romantic with her. But should I tell her I met someone else the night before? I just don’t want to be hiding things from someone I might want a relationship with.