I would like to know the other spectrum on how do girls feel about guys. Looking around me and most posts from here, seems like girls don’t quite fancy guys or are crazy for them (butterflies in her stomach, feeling like heaven when cuddling, a deep sexual relieve and pleasure, craving his attention and D, increased mood just by being close or talking to the guy she likes, genuinely enjoying his company, etc)

Maybe bad experiences of hers and her friends, toxic/negative material from news, magazines, friends and even certain subreddits she frequents negatively influence about how girls feel about guys?

Is it possible for a girl to consciously choose to abstain from guys in general (although she is straight and has a libido)?

Thanks in advance