So, I am looking for a serious relationship. Love, and all that stuff.

Now, when it comes to tinder etc I make it clear I am looking for something serious. But every so often when talking to someone they’ll turn sexual a bit.

Now, I understand the standards when it comes to sex on the first date. Some love it, where as others find it off putting.

But what are the standards on sexting? Does this lower standards and make someone not take you seriously? If that makes sense.

I’m not totally against it. But dont want to risk someone thinking that I’m only interested in the sexual side, and only good enough for sexting etc.

What are your views on sexting? Good or bad? Should it be something you wait to do when more personal and serious with them?