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How to accept the fact that love may never come for me? And how to stop longing/chasing for it?

I don’t know if it’s the right sub reddit for this kind of question.
Well, I’m a 24 yo guy who’s only 5ft 2inch.
Let’s face it: charisma, personality, confidence, flair and whatnot can only do so much, especially in the the beginning.
One time I saw a stat table that basically said that 97% of girls will reject me for my height ALONE.
It’s pretty depressing really.
But here’s the remaining 3% right?? Well, then we should consider factors like actual compatibility, if they find me attractive, life goals and so on…
Yeah… The future of my love life isn’t too bright to say the least.
The problem is that it hurts so bad.
The more I want love/intimacy the more it hurts.
I can’t stop longing and hoping for it but it hurts.
I can’t deal with the pain anymore but I can’t accept that love, most likely, will never come for me.

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