Before you actively trying to be in a relationship, find yourself first. Know what you need, what you want and be happy with yourself first. Otherwise problems will arise sooner or later in a potential relationship. If you can’t be happy with yourself how are you expecting someone else to do that for you?

Secondly if your happy with who you are, your dating game will also step up considerably because you are now confident with who you are.

Thirdly if you know what you need and want you can actively looking for such people to connect with and disregard others that are just not for you.

Hope this helps. Want to hear your opinion, experience with it though 🙂