I’m 28. I can’t say that I had much success with women. I tried every now and then to approach women. It’s not like that I can never ever start talking to a woman. I’m not 100 % shy. I tried to approach girls from my university for example. Or sometimes via online dating. At the beginning there is this flirty vibe, her interest. But during the process I always mess up in my interaction with girls somehow. You just sense it that she only talks to you out of politeness. When texting with them, they are maybe replying once in a day or every two days. I never really get a girls romantic interest in that sense. A certain needy vibe is always flowing over during the process I know that. I’m always aware of it but I just don’t know how to suppress this. When I observe other guys that approach girls it seems to be easy for them. Without paying effort.

Maybe some of you guys have the same problems. Or maybe some of guys have examples in which they could suppress this neediness. Just share your thoughts. It would be interesting to hear different opinions to this topic.