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Honestly, ghosting is a cowards way out and there is no damn excuse

Might get horribly down voted but here we go.

Literally, I (M19) don’t get it at ALL. If you don’t like someone anymore or don’t want to talk to them, hell just say something, anything is better than nothing.

I’m having this realisation after I spoke to this girl at my university since the start of the year. We knew each other before but she started hanging out with me more than usual. She has told me that I should text her often because she often ghosts people, as if it’s a personality trait. Needless to say it’s been a whole ass 4 months since I heard from her, she has my number and I texted her last week but no reply.

I don’t get it people, saying “I ghost people” isn’t cute, it isn’t funny, it’s just pathetic. I could be taking this too far lmao but you get the just of it. Don’t do it people, consider the other person

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How can I reply in a non-flirty way to this text and thus make my intentions clear ?

Hi guys, hope everyone is well !

I (M19) met this girl at my university at the end of last year-ish. She is really sweet and we have a good connection. It’s noticable to see that she likes me through her behaviour, what she says and the general way she comes across.

Recently she sent me a picture of her new haircut asking me about what I think of it. I told her it looks similar to her previous one but that she rocks both styles, I further stated that if she cut it herself I will give her a reward (i didn’t mean it literally, I even added an emoji as a joke lol)

She sent a text back asking: “I actually didn’t cut it myself but let’s say I did, what would my reward be?”

The problem is that I don’t want to lead her on because at this point in time, I view her as a friend, mainly because I’m not ready for anything yet. I have no idea how to reply to this without making it non-flirty

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