Sooo I’ve been single for nearly 4 years now, the longest I’ve ever been. Def learning a lot about myself for sure.

Signed up for a few dating sites and I get it , you first attract with the looks then reel em in with the good convo/personality.

However I find myself totally devoid of any Kool points trying to decipher the new dating lingo out here. There’s so many terms and kinks, orientations, relationship types,idioms and social media/pop culture references etc etc that totally go over my head and I tend to have to google a lot in the span of a conversation. Am I too old to get hip with these times? cause this out here is a whole new world for me and I’m less than confident that I’m making any forward progression at all..