Firstly, sorry if I made some errors, english is not my native language.

I’m (19M) really dumb when it comes to differenciate love/flirt and friendship. Honestly, most of the time, it’s just friendzone that I’m too desperate to see. But recently, after giving up (or trying to give up) on love for the next months, I have a huge doubt about a colleague/friend (18F), so I need your feedback about my situation.

We’re in the same group of friends, and we (the group) just finished our 8-months contract, so now we have plenty of time to hang out. So I see her quite often, about once a week (and half of the time during D&D sessions), and we have great conversations, the kind I don’t have with a lot of people, especially girls.

And it’s precisely this point that makes me doubt. When we chat, it’s often about love (our precedents relationships, what we want etc), sex and kinks (we have some in common) and relationship with the rest of the group. And when we don’t talk about that, we talk about mangas, getting our nails done, piercing, “obscures” musicians and stuff.

Moreover, a good friend told me “if she’s interested by what you like, you probably have your chances”, and that’s the case. For example, I told her about Berserk and Fate/Apocrypha, and the next day, she saw the 3 Berserk movies and during the next week she started Fate/Apocrypha.

Basically, we get along very well, we have a lot in common (and not just our passions, we have pretty similar problems).

But I really don’t know if it’s a mix of coincidences, my desperate ass who makes me spot falses hints, and her being enough at ease with me to talk about everything with me, or if she’s flirting.

She knows that I appreciate her and I would like to find my SO some day, and I know she wants a not too serious relationship (honestly, I’m totally fine with that).

So if I can have some feedback and advices, I would be grateful! Thanks for reading!