I’ve been casually dating a 20 year old girl for a while now.. 3 weeks? She’s a bit younger than me but quite mature for her age.

When we started we were texting each other like mad – we played an online game together and we’ve met up 3 times. The 2nd time we met – we talked for over 5 hours in a car park together 😅

But the longer it’s gone on the less she is texting.. She’s not responding to a lot of texts And her texts are very short and rushed. And she doesn’t give me a lot of details. But she still finishes her texts with a xx and calls me babs… Still I’m definetely putting in way more effort atm than she is.

She does have a lot of stuff going on at the moment. Her best friend is constantly going in and out of hospital, a friend was moving away and now she’s clearing out her grans house.

I can’t help the feeling though that she’s losing interest in me.. She has been in abusive relationships in the past and I’m worried that she thinks she can’t be honest with me as she thinks I’ll lash out.

I want to ask her if she wants to stop seeing me. I’m tired of trying to guess her motives and want her to be honest about what she wants. I’ll be sad if she says she wants to end but relieved as I’ll have an answer. What should I do here people?

Thank you for reading! 😊