They generalise people and especially girls, like a girl would be a mysterious creature with one global consciousness and you need to behave X or Y in order to please it… I dont think thats how the world works like

I think the target of these “guides” are guys who have very shallow views and fail to see the uniqueness of each person, both male and female… To be honest, one shouldnt try to “please” anyone, just find a person that you have fun with, can connect with him/her deeply etc., if the relationship forces you to behave in a certain, unnatural behaviour, its really bad and everyone should quit it lol

Thats why I think people who follow these advices behave not really openly and kinda unnatural, thats why they aren’t unique, feel shallow and normal cool people evade them… and they attach similar people to them, thats why they later complain about “modern people”..

Like, 25% of girls I met online were a perfect example of a “girl next door” who just wishes to meet a nice boy and would prefer their boy she can have an unique relationship with than any of the instagram models haha, i think this is the ultimate advice dont listen to these videos/posts, because they would need to advice on each relationship individually and its impossible to do it for trillions of relations lol