Ok so pre-quarantine I met this guy at a party. He had serious sexual energy and there was mild flirtation but nothing happened. He actually invited me back to his at the end of the night but I turned him down, mainly because I was super tired and at the time just wasn’t interested.

He’s passed my mind a few times since then and I was thinking about reaching out but didn’t have his contact details. So I did kind of a crazy thing and got them off a mutual friend and just sent him a message inviting him to hang out some time.

I’m now questioning whether this is ‘normal’ behavior and am feeling mad anxious about coming across as ‘creepy’ and being so forward – especially as a woman. And I feel like dating is always skewed in terms of men making the first move.

From my perspective – if I got that message I’d be flattered. But it could 100% also come across as creepy.

Also to be clear – I’m not looking for a relationship at all with this guy. I just very much felt sexual chemistry/ a spark if you will – and I feel that very rarely (almost never – especially not through dating apps) – which is why I wanted to act on it.

TLDR: met a guy at a party a few months ago, got his contact details off a friend, and messaged him asking him to hang. Is this creepy??