I dated my ex for 6 years. I broke up with him in July/August 2019. He was a HUGE part of my life and he helped me with so much. He and I traveled a lot together since he was in the military. I moved with him and lived with him in other states, in Hawaii, etc. I have almost all good memories of him except the last year that we dated. How can someone ask me to delete 6 years of my life? This has not come up yet, but if it does I don’t know how to handle it. I am not going to delete moment of my life just because they were with him. 6 years is a lot to delete.

How should this be handled?