Bf and I have been together for about a year. To put it nicely, I’m a very outgoing person and he never wants to do anything with me, ever. Occasionally well go out for tea but nothing exciting.
Recently we’ve both been invited to parties at our friends places and he’s always told me that I have to stay home and I’m not coming, but he’s going. When the host asks why I never come, I tell them because bf doesnt want me to, to which they never understand why. He’ll go out for nights on end.
This has been happening for over half a year and is happening again. The excuse he uses is “I haven’t seen my friends since *, I want to have alone time with them” even though they’re my friends too, and everytime is alone time seeing as I’ve only been out with him once or twice over the past few months.
Am I being overdramatic or do I have a right to be upset, I’m not sure anymore. I feel extremely left out.
TLDR; Bf and I get invited places/parties/gatherings but he makes me stay home, saying he doesn’t want me coming and then goes for the whole night.
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