Before anyone gets upset I’ll have you know that I’m a 24 yr old virgin who’s never dated anyone, so this applies to myself too. I thought about this while talking to my older brother who is almost 30. He too is a virgin who never dated anyone. The crazy thing is he is more handsome than me, it just doesn’t seem like he has made much moves on women.

If you’re still single by then what happened? Surely you could have dated someone by then right? I was struck by illness when I was 19 so I lost about 3yrs, and I had strict parents in high school. Even with strict parents I still could have dated someone. There were opportunities in high school that I was too afraid to take. I had opportunities in college too, even with illness I could have found someone. Fortunately I’m still young so I can find someone.

I think if someone is unwillingly single for long periods of time then they have some kind of problem. Once they identify the problem they are more likely to fix it. It could be a personality trait, or maybe something physical. A huge one is low self-esteem, most people don’t want a partner with low self-esteem. In fact mean people like to take advantage of them, it’s prettt sad. Anyway this blunt approach helped me identify my issues. It’s best to work on yourself before you get into a serious relationship.