If we should all be accepted for who we are, we should at least feel comfortable sharing who we’re not.

The: “OMG babe, SAME. Totally! ” thing always comes across as lame and disingenuous.

Sometimes what you don’t like is much more telling than what you do like. This is how you get to know people and achieve genuine intimacy.

Being honest with your dealbreakers from the start is a must, but you also shouldn’t be shamed for “negativity” when sharing your dislikes. I’m always thrilled to meet another open minded hater. We can bitch about the weather together.

Some people hate the Harry Potter franchise, some people’s haircuts are simply hideous. Some people fucking hate hiking!

You should be able to discuss such things with the person you’re dating, then laugh it off and cuddle.