Almost 30/m and still haven’t had much success with dating, offline or online. Dated three women briefly and one one night stand that I met through online but it never worked out in the end, tbh we weren’t great long term matches. I get little to no interest online because of the way I look I’m assuming, yet I’ve had zero success trying to meet someone offline…

I’d like nothing more than to have a meaningful relationship one day, not looking to have meaningless hookups. But I feel as I get older there is much less hope. If it hasn’t worked out by now, how would it in my 30’s? I have tried to meet people offline but have never been able to get enough interest, to where the woman wouldn’t ghost/flake.

It feels like a void in my life and makes me depressed a lot… just not really sure why I’m not considered good enough to go out with, besides the way I look. People will say it’s lack of confidence… well how are you supposed to be confident when you have no reason to be… I’m not even average looking and haven’t had much success, to feel confident about.