My husband (28M) and I (24F) have been together for 2 1/2 years. Before we met, he got around and had quite a bit of experience in bed. I experimented a little bit but not nearly as much as he did. He also took my virginity after we had been serious for a while. Sex has always been a difficult topic for us. Throughout our entire relationship, I’ve always wanted sex more often than he does. I’ve always just assumed that it’s because I’m hitting my sexual peak right now and he’s on the downhill part of his. When we first started having sex, it was very painful for me. So I saw a pelvic floor therapist and got that all worked out. I asked if he would go see a doctor about boosting his testosterone levels or something. He still has yet to do that. Today, he confessed to me that he’s been jerking off a lot (we both masturbate and are very open about it). But he told me that it was a lot more often than he had previously led on. I was extremely hurt by the fact that he had been lying to me. And I keep blaming myself for our shitty sex life. What do I do?