So me and my girlfriend recently broke up. She was my first gf and she knew that. I’m 22 and shes 19. I just want to air some things out about our relationship. She knew this was my first relationship. About 3 months back(1 month into our relationship) she went behind my back to talk to her ex on the phone. She did not even tell me about this until I brought it up 2 weeks later because I suspected something was up. He cheated on her And they broke up months prior. Basically she was talking to him to see if hes changed. She admitted if he was she would have left me for him. Now obviously I was pissed but she downplayed it like it wasnt serious.

The next day she text me saying she was wrong and all that, I basically said yeah I agree but it’s fine. She did not like that. She called me screaming my ear off. She thought it was disrespectful to chastise her for it. She hung up. Well like an hour later she called me to do a favor for her and ofcourse I did it. We eventually got past this.

My gf has a bit of a promiscuous past. She has had lots of bfs and some fwb. Somewhere in between 10-12. She is 19 so the bf thing may have been a red flag. I got over this because I loved her and she was with me. Thing is, shes very flirty. She gives out her number alot and seems to like to keep guys that clearly like her around. I recently found out she gave this guy at her workplace her number. I saw their dynamic when talking to each other and it’s very flirty. I even saw him staring at her ass. She promised nothing was up and I never found anything out. She had been very distant lately. Her phone was off all friday night until 9am. She then called saying she was at a friends house and her phone died. Her ex and this workplace friend live very close to her, I do not. She had been spending the night at friends alot and didnt seem interested in hanging with me.

She was very hypocritical. She would tell me shed be jealous if I hung out with a woman but wanted me to be cool with her hanging out with a past fwb. She would tell me I cant do a certain thing then do it. She has hit me a couple times. One time after getting off the phone with her mom who made her mad. Another after I was angry she texted her ex behind my back again.

She has recently been asking for more and more money. She used to not like doing that but its changed. I do tell her it’s fine and I’ll buy her anything but I feel she took advantage of that. She also got upset whenever I didnt cum in her. I told her I dont want kids and she was fine with it but still gets mad. There were times where I’ve even cum in her just to make her happy and not feel guilty.

She broke up with me this past Sunday. Some of her reasons were I was too sensitive, she likes to play yell and fight for fun and I don’t do that. She said I was not hood enough. After she broke up with me we got back together the next day. The day after that she asked me to buy her a 200 dollar wig. Seemed weird with all the emotions we were going through with the breakup and all. I said no and she seemed to just lose interest. I broke up with her via text the next day(I know dirty) but did offer to meet in person to discuss it one last time. She hasn’t replied. What do you guys think of this?

Tl;dr: my girlfriend has done some things that may have been unhealthy and I dont know if I was played or not. She asked for more and more money and would call just for that sometimes. Emotional cheated. Need some help understanding. We broke up, got back together next day, then I ended it for good.