F24. I have difficulties even getting a date while my girl friends get a man every hour. I’m open and honest; I don’t play games, I’m not passive aggressive. I’m told I’m easy-going and that I’m a “guy’s girl” by almost every male I meet… Yet, when I come across a guy who does express interest, it’s only interest to hang out, maybe have sex, and that’s it. I don’t generally hook up immediately with a guy unless I know I don’t want anything more from them but that. If I’m interested in anything further I’m more of a “sex on the third or fourth date.” But whenever I don’t offer it up, the guy slowly slides out of my DMs after weeks of great conversation and maybe a couple of days later I see their name on my FB feed that says “__ is now in a relationship.” What am I doing wrong that I can’t be someone’s endgame? Am I really only good for an inbetween hookup that’s on the way to who they want? It’s discouraging and makes me not want to bother. Even my sex drive has gone dormant from it. Maybe I come on too strong or too weak? I was told men like when a girl makes a first move, and as long as you’re, a girl, you’re golden, but I’m always shut down no matter how much I smile or say “I think you’re attractive.” What do I do?