I’ll try and keep this as quick as possible.

Friend of a friend adds me on fb, we start talking and eventually once lockdown eases a bit we end up having sex at my house. We’ve done it now like 4-5 times either at my house or during small gatherings at my best friends house (she doesn’t mind). Anyway we were both at her house the other day, and he messages me saying he wanted to come home with me, to which I said no because I knew that meant he wanted sex and I wasn’t in the mood. He said what if we just cuddle and I was like yeah you can come then. Bear in mind that all of our joint friends have been telling us how we suit eachother and how hes ‘mad’ about me and all that, and he brings up whenever I see him that we should ‘make a go of things’ etc.

So skip to later on, he comes back home with me and we do end up having sex. We cuddle for like 10-15 minutes maybe before he says hes tired and wants to go home. He usually stays and sleeps here so I was surprised and a bit disappointed b/c I like the cuddling but I didn’t think too much about it. So today I wake up to my friend texting me saying “please dont be upset when you see his story…” and I obvs checked his story to see him dancing with a girl to a love song. I was initally like ‘whatever’ cos its just a dance and they werent like grinding or anything. But I spoke to my friend more and putting everything together made me think I should cut this guy off. She strongly thinks I should.

Idk, I havent spoken to him since he left my house and if cutting him off is what is best then I’m happy to do that b/c I wasnt deep on him. But now all my insecurities are coming out to play which is not fun. My anxiety etc is telling me its because I have a shitty personality and I’m good for nothing but quick sex…but thats obvs nothing to do with this guy, its just my brain overthinking which is what it does best haha.