I’ve noticed over time that an easy follow-up question after an answer to your own question is “how about you?”.
So for example, if you are going to ask a potential date something personal, be willing to answer with the same amount of depth.
Or don’t ask someone a question you aren’t willing to answer yourself.
You can use it to your advantage if done wisely, but use common sense!
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No scenario just curious. Sometimes the person you’re dating might really want to have sex, or they’re just flirting and being nice and don’t want to.
How do you get into the discussion/mood when most of the time you are flirting around the subject?
Do you just go out and say it?
Do you make a move and hope you don’t get rejected?
And if you think they don’t want to yet but think that you do how do you figure each other out?
Do you tell them “hey, I like you but I’m not trying to do that if you’re not into it” (Does that just come off as uncool or weird by announcing it?)
The whole “playing it cool” thing works if the signs are obvious and you both feel the passion, but if you’re still in the feeling out phase, how do you figure it out without saying “hey I want to have sex, can we have sex” and ruining the mystery?
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