So, I’ve been talking to this girl on and off for a little under two years and it has been going very well. The times we stopped talking, it was because she wasn’t sure if she wanted to be in a relationship. We are at university together, so it was totally understandable if she wanted to be alone/experimenting/ whatever during these times. But every time we have started talking again, it was because she wanted to, not because of me begging but because she decided to. I say this as if it had happened hundreds of times, but we really only stopped talking twice. Right now, things are going very well, talking every day, constantly, with the odd pauses between messages. I find this understandable of course, her not wanting to burn out the conversation too quickly especially during these times.

So what I want to know, is if the time is right for me to ask her what she wants, and if she wants to be with me more, I dunno, officially. I don’t know whether to wait after lockdown, but I just want her to be mine right now. I want her to know that I want her.

So, what should I do reddit. Please help an infatuated young man, thank you x