Met a guy on Bumble, and to be honest I’m a bit smitten.

im 23 f and hes 24 m

He is incredibly good looking, sweet and smart. We get along like a house on fire.

Anything I have said I’m interested in, he has said he is interested in too- to the point where it’s almost uncanny how much we have in common and alike we are. It’s been so nice to meet someone with so much in common, and just a genuinely nice guy. Also, we have the same specific profession, which isn’t all that common.

The compliments have been firing back and forward from both parties.

He asked for my number and we chatted every day for a week. He joked about if we could skip the talk and just get married already considering how alike we are. A couple days ago he told me he loved the similarities, how much we have in common and how interesting I am and proceeded to ask when the restrictions eased if I was interested in grabbing a drink. Of course, I said I’d love to.

Since asking me out for a drink, his replies have taken hours. No issues there as sometimes I take hours to reply too, as I’m busy with life. However he took 24hrs+ to reply when he asked what my favourite drink was after asking me out for a drink.

We exchanged a few brief messages last night. But I’m yet to hear back from him, again in over 24hrs.

Normally I wouldn’t care, as I keep myself pretty busy and happy with my day to day life.

I only ask because I don’t really understand that ever since asking me out for a drink, the frequency in the texting pattern has dramatically dropped.

I get taking hours to respond, but when it goes from pretty constant to now 24+ to reply, twice???
Why tell someone you love the similarities, how interesting they are and ask them out if you’re not really that interested after all?

I don’t know guys.. What do you think? Not interested? Busy with life?