I get plenty of attention from girls. Unfortunately it is purely negative and pretty abusive also.

These are the types of attention I get:

1. Girls approaching me to ask about my friends, whilst stating that I am the “ugly friend”
2. Fake flirting, pretending they think I am cute but is blatantly obvious that they are mocking me.
3. Abuse online on tinder etc. Messaging me telling me that I am ugly and that i should get off the app. Sometimes I will get a match and then they will say “hey” but after a while they will say “oops sorry I thought you were the good looking one”

I dont remember any occasion where a girl has been remotely pleasant to me.

My ex said I was too unattractive for sex also, she set no sex as a ground rule because she said she had zero physical attraction to me.

I am a guy that is pleasant, caring, looks after ones appearance and people tend to take to me as I feel I am an easy going guy. Not saying I am perfect, but not someone who deserves this level of abuse/rejection haha.

This isn’t supposed to be self pity post, I just wanted to share my experience and discuss it with some folk.

Is it normal to be seen as this unattractive by the opposite sex lol?