Hi, so ive been talking to this girl for 1 month now. We would talk on the phone every day for 5+ hours since its quarantine and everything seemed like it was going well. For the past 6 days, I have been getting 1 text a day and 0 phone calls so I got worried and reached out to her.

She said she’s going through some family issues and that its not me at all. I told her if she wants to share it with me, maybe I can help or just be support for her during this time. She appreciated that but wanted to deal with it on her own.

Fast forward to last night, we ended up having a serious conversation where I asked her thoughts on us and whether or not she is serious about meeting someone or if she’s talking to someone else. I told her that if she feels like her hearts with another guy, id pull out because I don’t want to be a contingency if things don’t work out with the other guy she’s talking to…

That’s when she said after a while that her heart is still with her ex. And how she was in love with him and he broke her heart. She said she knows she will not be with him again but he keeps reaching out to her every month which brings those feeling flooding back.

I asked her if she thinks there’s a chance of things between us materializing into something and she said “anything could happen, after breaking my heart I don’t look into the future about things, I just let things go with the flow”

She still wants to talk to me and asked me to talk again tonight. She said she enjoys talking to me but said to do what I think is best for me because she would feel terrible if we continued to talk and eventually she doesn’t get there with me.

Should I try fighting for her, or am I wasting my time just being a rebound for this girl? I care about her so much it’s unreal and this is consuming me. I wish she would just tell me a clear answer but she said she couldn’t do that.

Any thoughts or advice on this situation would be greatly appreciated