So I (M19) never quite realized that I have a crush on one of my best friends (F18). We’ve been friends for years now and she actually is one of my best friends. So we’ve always been good friends. I haven’t really had a crush on anyone else for years so I kinda just really didn’t think about dating or asking someone out anymore. Until a few weeks ago I started to have a little crush on some girl (F19). Only for one or two weeks though. Because then I realized that I actually liked someone else… My good friend. The girl that I have been hanging out with all the time. Then I realized I always kinda liked her but I wanted the thought to go away and completely ignored it because of the good friendship we had. And it kinda worked at first. I got it out of my head. I just thought I like her because she’s such a good friend and that’s the kind of feeling you have for a really good friend. But when I had a crush on this other girl I found out that these are the same feelings – but much weaker – that I feel for my friend. This is now two weeks ago. I haven’t seen her since then because she’s only been hanging out with some other friends lately. Exactly now when I start to realize that I have a crush on her. I’m very insecure about this dilemma. Should I just be honest to her? Or is it smarter to keep it a secret because if she liked me she’d make some kind of approach which she hasn’t really? Please help me on this!