I (19M) would like to ask out a former coworker (19F). We worked together a couple of years ago, and at the time she had a boyfriend. I’ve talked to her a couple of times since then, but other than that we haven’t really had many opportunities to interact. She had a bf when we worked together, but I can’t find anything to suggest that she is still seeing anyone. The problem is, I also can’t really find anything to suggest that she isn’t seeing someone. If I do ask her out, it will be through messenger. Can I just go for it, or should I try and figure out if she is seeing someone already? Should I ask her if she’s seeing someone? I don’t want to offend her by asking her out while she’s in a relationship. Thanks for any advice!