I recently read something that changed my mind about how I date and I wanted to share it. The premisse was that, instead of wondering whether someone will like you, and how you can appear interesting to them, you should focus on whether you will like them, and how they can appear interesting to you. I think the bottom line is: don’t put all the pressure on you, but rather seek to find a person who likes you fro who you are without you being anxious about stuff you can’t change anyway.