Author Archive: /u/skittelydee

Wondering if I’m being ghosted and if this warrants a response

Sorry if this is a bit all over the place, I’m typing on mobile. I’ve been casually seeing this guy for about 7 months and I can’t really get a read on him. There’s been a lot of mixed signals during this time. The most recent being he was texting me everyday but then kind of just stopped. I tried initiating conversation and he’d respond but didn’t really seem that into it. I didn’t really think much of it until I would send him a message and he wouldn’t respond for hours, which is fine. But I realized he would be online on Facebook messenger so he would just be avoiding my messages I think? When he did text me he offered to celebrate a test score with me or to go hiking when he did text me, which I took him up on. The last couple times I saw him he just played Modern Warfare the entire time and then went to sleep. I just got a job after being placed on furlough so he offered to celebrate that as well. He texted me the night of, and didn’t respond for a couple hours and said he was too tired to do anything. I haven’t responded because at this point I don’t think he wants to talk to me, but some part of me wants confirmation. I was hoping for at least an apology but it’s been silent. Not sure if he’s slowly ghosting me or if there’s even anything worth salvaging. Also curious as to why he even bothered ffering to do nice things for me if he was planning ghosting me.

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