Author Archive: /u/teeheexxxmy

Giving him his space?

Do guys usually come back when you give them their space? Ever since I got rejected, I just have been really clingy and have been wanting answers as to why I wasn’t good enough… I started giving him his space today, but I really miss him a lot… We were good friends and we were casually dating as well, but he didn’t feel right being with me. I miss talking to him everyday and I miss hanging out with him. I really did have deep feelings for him and I still do, even though I have been lying to him that I was absolutely okay with being just friends and I have been lying to myself as well.. Every day has been a struggle for me and there are times where I would tear up randomly… I know we weren’t in an official relationship, but almost relationships hurt just as bad or if not, worse…..

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How to not be insecure?

I need advice. I have had bad dating experiences in my life where I got cheated on and ghosted by men several times. In some situations, the guys I talked to were usually emotionally unavailable or they just don’t want to be with me.

Is there a way to boost my self confidence and not get hurt or be insecure whenever I get rejected by someone? I’m the type of person that cares and stresses a lot about relationships with others (whether it’s family, coworkers, friends, etc) because that’s when I feel most accepted and not alone.

I do have several hobbies which keep me busy, but there are times where I feel extremely lonely because I don’t have a significant other to enjoy the hobbies with. I’m financially and physically independent, but I guess emotionally, I’m mostly dependent on others for my happiness.

Please give me advice or suggestions on how I can change this about myself.

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