I have been single for 3 years now. And I am used to people not being who they seem to be. But now I had an exceptionally frustrating experience.

I (25m) met someone(24f) on tinder at the beginning of quarantine. Let’s call her “L”. At the start of the match we didn’t talk much. But after a few weeks a conversation picked up. We started talking allot. And after a while we wanted to meet. But because we couldn’t, we had video dates. Those went great. Sometimes we talked until 3am! Evenetually we even broke quarantine and went for a walk. (we kept the 1,5 meters rule). And that was super great as wel.

Now she doesn’t like to text allot so I didn’t always get a fast response. And I didn’t mind it. And during the Date she mentioned she can become a little withdrawn when things get serious. But we couldn’t even Touch each other, let alone kiss. So for me it wasn’t that serious yet. Although I started crushung verry hard.

Now after the Date she said she would be moving to her new appartement and would be busy with starting her new job. So I wouldn’t here allot from her anymore. Which indeed happened. But it’s ok I understand. Every few Days I tried to check up on her asking how she was doing and she wouldn’t answer much. Now it has been 3 weeks without a word. I would guess she’s busy. But she’s posting story’s on insta where she’s hanging out with friends and stuff. And I’m here, asking myself what the hell I did wrong.