Me and my gf have been dating for 1.5 years and are both 16. We started playing this sexual game we call “Naked Compliments” months ago. Basically one of us goes into the closet and the other gives 5 compliments not based on looks. Then the person leaves the closet fully clothed and the other gives compliments based just on how they look there clothed (compliments about the clothes are common here). Then they strip to their undewear and get 5 more compliments based on that, and finally they get naked and get 5 more compliments about their body while nude . Then we switch off. We’ve had a lot of fun with it and play it every now and then. It almost always leads to sex right after.

Recently my girlfriend injured herself and it left behind a scar on her stomache. She sent me a picture of it and I told her it wasn’t bad. We didn’t bring it up for a bit after that. We were recently playing Naked Compliments for the first time since she got the scar.

After it was time in the game for her to strip down to just her bra and underwear she got uncomfortable and told me she didn’t feel like playing anymore right now. I said ok but asked why. She started crying saying her stomache is ugly now and that she’s worried I won’t be attracted to her anymore. I went up to her, hugged her, and told her “Don’t talk like that about my beautiful girlfriend” but she just replied with “Its true though” and was still crying and very upset. I told her that while its totally fine if she doesn’t feel comfortable stripping right now the scar isn’t that noticable, she’s the most beautiful and sexy girl in the world, I’ll always be attracted to her, I love her no matter what, and that I love every part of her and her body.

She eventually relaxed more but has been acting more down on herself. She must still feel really insecure about the scar. I really don’t think the scar is a big deal at all, it doesn’t affect my attraction to her AT ALL.

She doesn’t really want to take her shirt off in front of me now. Before the scar, we were totally comfortable being naked in front of each other whether its showering, sex, or whatever. We’ve had sex once since her crying but she wanted to keep her shirt on. Of course thats her right and I respect that but how can I make her feel better about herself? Maybe she just needs more time? I can tell she’s really sad about it :/

PS I miss our game