So I’m 20M Virgin and a good looking guy. I go to the gym, tall, white, dress well, nice teeth, whatever.

Here’s the thing: I don’t like hook ups.

I am introverted and I want to have a relationship with a girl and then get comfortable around her before engaging anything sexual. The problem is, I feel like every girl my age is just having sex, sex, sex. Hook up culture. I joined tinder and I had a few girls on there flirting in a way for me to “come over” but I refused all the time because I get nervous about not performing well and not knowing the person well enough to begin with! I actually was looking to date instead.

I personally feel like if a man judges women for how much sex they have, then men should also live by those same rules and not hook up.

I feel like all I’m doing is waiting for a girl to come along and by the time she does, she would be a lot more sexually experienced than me which makes me feel sick.

I feel like girls don’t WANT a relationship. So why should I bother? I should just go have sex with girls and never date, is that it? I don’t want to, but I feel like that’s the ONLY WAY I will progress in the dating world. What a time to be alive.