Author Archive: /u/ZombieGeorgeRomero

How to stop being so "all or nothing"?

I’m not sure how to describe this exactly. I’m really bad for becoming very invested in people and relationships quickly. It takes me a long time to get to the “labels” stage but even after one date I start getting anxiety about things not working out and when they don’t work out, I feel crushed. This anxiety when dating makes me too scared to keep trying when things don’t work out and I can’t imagine how scared I’d be in an actual committed relationship of it failing or how crushed I would be if it did.

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Am I weird to desire intimacy more than sex?

Maybe it’s because I’m young, maybe it’s because I’ve not had any sexual experiences yet or maybe it’s because I’ve never been in a serious relationship, but I have got this deep desire to find intimacy and companionship more than sex.

To be clear, I’m definitely not asexual, I do desire sexual acts aswell, it’s just that I’m more focused on finding intimacy. I’ve only just started dating this year but the short bursts of intimacy I’ve had have been great.

Honestly things like being cuddled on the sofa with someone, or dancing with someone or even just those intense moments like looking into someone’s eyes before you kiss them, are what seem the most interesting to me.

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