I know the old adage…it depends on the guy. But that’s not what I’m asking. As a bigger girl who takes care of her body but doesn’t carry her weight in the “right” places, I’ve noticed something. If you’re bigger, there’s only two main aesthetics you must fit into in order to be seen as “attractive”.
You’re either a sexy bombshell BBW clad in black and red leather, or a cute chubby babydoll who wears sundresses with no underwear. To each their own, I’m not shaming. You do you honey boo boo. But it’s just something I’ve noticed. For two of my exes, I wasn’t fat enough for them. The first one didn’t like that I wasn’t a BBW, the second left me for a girl who fit the babydoll mold.
I could be off the mark and just choosing shitty guys. I dunno. I feel like bigger girls are now a fetish instead of a body type that you either are/aren’t attracted to. That there’s both a style and lifestyle correlation.
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