I tend to make the first move (when I’m interested) and initiate instead of waiting around for him to do it. I’d like to be in control. Don’t call me -I’ll call you. This is only in the beginning . It doesn’t matter if I’ll get it or he’ll reciprocate. Well…my experience. It’s both. Mostly 90% They appreciate it you get a yes. Or they make you “ do more and trying to test you how far will you go…then as soon as you stopped doing it . They start chasing you and give you lame excuses. Passive aggressive card…. Nope! It will only backfire . Also since they knew you’re so into them. They feel like they got you, so they believe they can do anything and you aren’t going anywhere. They have this treat her shit she’ll want you more mentality….not going to work!!!
After being single for over 3 years. Haven’t had sex for awhile. I’ve finally met someone who is strong , but isn’t a “yes man” not submissive but let’s me be the dominant. I don’t really go for younger men but he’s too smart and we have a strong connection .I always have this “I got it I got i got “ . He is persistent and doesn’t mind me taking the driver seat when needed but also let him take care of me in some ways. I know when to hold and put my feet down but also make him my priority 🙂 I wasn’t really into him before but because of persistence and he’s consistent ….I gave him a chance . He fell in love right away. Has been treating me well and because of that I learned and developed feelings for him…..it gets better and deeper everyday . But love isn’t enough to keep it going .Compatibility , respect and mutual understanding should be the foundation …Love will follow 🙂 I don’t believe in happy wife , happy life . If he’s happy he’ll release that to me. You reap what you sow.
13 months later 🙂 I am so in love with my sexy, smart, sophisticated , Jewish man….I’m getting the rings soon 🙂 hopefully he’ll say yes….even though I know it’ll be the other way around ? I’ll be converting as well.
Tldr; love can be learned
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