Quick run down of the situation. Matched with a girl on March 31st. Get chatting, eventually have 3 video chat "dates". 1st was 1 hour 20 minutes, 2nd was 1 hour 40 minutes, 3rd was 2 hours. All is well, doing this due to COVID. On the last one, I ask if she would like to try meeting in person, she agrees. On this past Monday, the plan was to potentially go to the park if she got some work done. She ends up having to say no. She's currently a Masters student, with her research deadline due sometime earlier this week, had to keep working on it. Totally understandable.
So anyways, I had responded to her message saying she couldn't make it (along with all the other stuff she said), and haven't heard from her since. As in, she never responded to my message. With that said, I didn't actually "ask" her anything, but normally she will at least respond to what I had said back. Now, realistically, she only ever really messages me 1x per day. We are still chatting on the app only, and I had been planning on asking for her number once we actually meet in person. Its just a bit unusual that she now hasn't responded for 3 days, considering in her last message she had said "perhaps later this week we can hand out instead?"
So my question is, what do I do from here? Do I just keep sitting and waiting for her to speak up first, or do I message her and ask how things are going, and ask about meeting again in the next couple days?
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