Sorry for the formatting I’m on mobile, and first time poster.
I (F21) met my boyfriend (M30) about two years ago, together about 1 year and 6 months plus if I’m not mistaken. He’s working as a healthcare personal and I’m a medic student.
I think our relationship is fine, great even. Rarely any problem at all, minimal arguments and just overall smooth. He lives 1.5 hour from me and would visit me once every fortnight /monthly. Well except when I have to go back to university which is 10 hours away from my hometown.
Well, I just found out that he was already engaged before he met me. And got married yesterday.
After a bit of stalking, I found out that his wife (F29) used to go to the same university as him. His junior of one year. And she lives about 8 hours away from my hometown.
I assumed I’m his side bitch because he cannot get to meet his fiancée regularly and used me instead.
To my knowledge, his wife did not know about me at all.
Should I tell her? If yes, why? If no, why?
My heart aches so much, and I cannot stop myself from crying. Everything is too much too handle for me right now. Please be kind to me.
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