Build your confidence, but don’t do it at the expense of someone else’s.

When talking to a person who lacks confidence, lots of times the get advice like “go on dates, hook up with people, get and ego boost.” This advice, while good, has flaws. Yes, it is ok to go out on dates and casually see people, but please make sure that the other person is aware that’s it’s casual. This goes for everyone, It hurts when you’re being used for sex, so try not to do it to others. As long as you keep your intentions known, you’ll be fine. But remember, hurt people, hurt people. Don’t be a person who hurts another. That’s all.