I’ve been talking to/seeing this guy I met off of a dating app about a year ago, but we only started talking recently (we never bothered to keep the convo going once we added each other on snapchat earlier). Things have been going well. We get along well and we’ve seen each other every week for the past month. Recently, i’ve been getting signs that he easily gets butthurt over little things. I remember a few weeks ago we were texting a few days before we met for the first time and I opened one of his messages and forgot to reply cause I got caught up at work. He messaged me again five minutes after i’d left him on read, saying “oh I guess you don’t want to talk to me?”. I told him what happened and he seemed fine after. Then, this past week when I went over to his place, I was super anxious because he hadn’t bothered to walk me to his apartment, and I was having trouble finding it. I had also worked from 7-4 that day, driven and hour home in traffic, gotten ready, and driven 45 minutes to see him, and hadn’t eaten dinner yet because we were going to make it together. I called him and he didn’t pick up, and when I finally got there I was still recovering from getting lost at the complex. He opened the door and I kind of just blurted out that I need to sit down for a minute. He seemed super annoyed and I tried to explain what happened, but was like “ok like damn!” Fastforward to yesterday. We barely talked cause he was busy helping his friend with his house (no big deal), and he finally messages me saying that he’s exhaused and that he wished I lived nearby so I could come over. I replied with the classic “me too :(“ because what else am I going to say?? And he replied with “it’s probably for the best that you don’t. I need to catch up on my sleep”. This threw me off a bit because I was assuming this was just one of those “im trying to be cute and say i wish I could see you texts”. So I replied with “oh I thought this was a hypothetical” to which he replied “it was. Nevermind. I’m knocking out”. I told him goodnight just like any other time we’d text and he left me on read. Hasn’t texted me today at all. Not sure what to do. Am I reading too much into this? Or should I take these small signs as a warning?
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