Can you be yourself while still being attractive to women?

I’ve seen tons and tons of YouTube videos and it seems like everyone has like 1,000,000 different methods to get a girlfriend, however from what I’ve been told by friends in real life and from what I’ve seen in the videos most of these methods all seem to point out changing things of yourself.

I’m a 6’0 tall 21 year guy, I rock a flattop for my hairstyle and started working out to build some muscle, I weigh 168lbs, wear big square glasses and I’m a huge nerd I’m, especially into gaming and I study communications and aspire to become a journalist. I don’t want to change any of these things, so can I be myself and still be attractive to women?