So whilst in the whole quarantine i caught feelings for a girl that goes to my school, and i guess to give a good idea im 16 going on my junior year. Now my problem is i cant tell if she's not interested or she feels obligated to talk to me. When she is in school she never talks much not a very outgoing person if you will and with that i never talked to her in school before. So i decided to add her on snap chat and she accepted that and i followed her on instagram but she never followed me back there. anyways before i even added her and decided to try to talk to her i saw she had a vsco account which is basically a place you can upload pictures and repost other peoples posts etc… so i decided to check it out and she had alot of sad type of stuff on there and alot i could relate to. and from what i could gather she had 1 relationship before but got really hurt and never tried again. and with that i thought of asking if she was okay, so the first time i messaged her, her response was very enthusiastic and what not but when i asked if she was alright she didn't know what i meant at first and then i had to explain, when she realized she kinda laughed it off as" haha yeahhh that" at that point i was like yeah sorry for coming out the blue just thought i would ask n just left it at that. ever since i tried to message her at least like once a week and every time i message her she responds within the first 3 minutes but her responses can vary sometimes just one word responses to some sentences. She also never texts me first nor ever asks questions about me so im wondering if its because she was hurt and doesn't want to go through that again. or she has no interest in me at all and she just kinda feels obligated to answer. also a side note she snaps ALOT of people and i think the reason for it is because she shows off her snap on her insta profile dont know if thats important but yeah.
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