Choosing between a guy that gets you but unsure of how he feels or a guy that cares about you and wants you but you don’t vibe with?

I’m gonna ask this again for advice: So I know I’m gonna sound real stupid on this one, I’m gonna keep this one short and simple but basically… there’s this boy, let’s call him Vinny, and he makes me really happy. We have the same energy and we just vibe and he just gets me a lot and whenever he texts me I just get those butterflies, he understands my humour he gets my jokes, we joke around with eachother. he’s just a amazing guy. He subtly flirts with me as well. I know he cares too. Then there’s this other guy let’s call him Ricky, he’s a great guy he’s caring, He’s interested, he makes sure I’m okay, and always there for me no matter what, but the thing is he just doesn’t get my humour he doesn’t get my personality, he’s super flirty like really flirty. He tries so hard to like the things I like, he just try’s hard to make me like him, when he can be himself. we just don’t vibe like me and Vinny do. But Ricky is one of a kind I wouldn’t find a guy like him. I’m not saying Vinny isn’t caring, he is. He’s maybe not as clingy as Ricky but he cares too. He’s basically like the guy version of me. Maybe a tad bit different. The thing with Vinny is he lives an hour and 30 minutes away while Ricky lives 30 minutes away. I know that Ricky really likes me and really wants a relationship he makes that clear. Vinny is a little more secretive. Vinny flirts with me, calls me beautiful and just lets me know I’m worthy. I just don’t know how he really really feels about me. I don’t know what goes through his head. I know he thinks I’m attractive and seems interested I just don’t know if he wants to pursue anything, I don’t know how to find out. Both guys aren’t dirty they never asked me for s-x or n-d-es, or any of that. They respect a girl and are respectful towards girls. I don’t know who to choose. I know guys aren’t a pretty outfit to choose from. I’m not leading them on. They both came into my life at the same time, I feel horrible that I’m in this situation. I just have no idea anymore. Do I choose ricky who genuinely cares about me and is absolutely one of a kind but just doesn’t vibe vibe with me and sometimes just doesn’t get me. He’s also super sensitive where I can’t joke around or he would get super sad, and joking is part of my personality too. Or should I choose Vinny, he gets me, I can joke around with him, he gets my humour and we just vibe together. He’s a little flirty, and throws in those subtle flirts. He jokes around a lot but he lives an hour and 30 minutes away. He makes me really happy. I’m not sure who to choose I need help. My heart says Vinny but also Ricky too. Im also scared of I choose Vinny he won’t wanna Persue anything and id be hurting Ricky. I don’t know how to find out his feelings, although he seems interested I don’t know if he wants to persue. I’m sorry if I sound like a horrible person, I’m mixed up in my feelings and i just need advice, who’s better for me? Who do I choose? Please help 🙁

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