Basically my (17M) girlfriend (17f) told me that she is afraid of telling me things and talking about certain thingswith me. We have been dating for over a year and I feel like if I make her feel like that then I am the problem and I believe that she doesn't deserve such problems in her life. I know why she said it it is because 1. When it comes to alcohol and parties I don't partake. I don't like going to parties and when ever she brings up those things she thinks I'm judging her or sum. 2. She thinks I don't like her friends (which mostly isn't true) so when she brings them up or doing things with them instead of me she thinks I will be upset. Based off my experience her friends dislike me a lot but that's not the point. There may be more reasons but our conversation had to stop for other reasons I am not gonna suddenly partake in parties and I would like to have a better relationship with her friends but they never seem willing or want to. I don't know how to go from here?
TL;DR My (17M) gf (17f) is afraid of talking about certain things with me. I feel the reasons for the afraidness don't seem to be changeable. Because I make her feel like that I am a problem and she doesn't deserve to have problems. Where to go from here?
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